It is positively shocking. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. Eternity is a long time. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Learning from a young age that any religion will do means that your children almost certainly will ultimately believe that any religion will do. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. If this is his first year, I believe he has at least two more years, possibly as many as four or five. Do you know anyone working in medicine or in the healthcare field.
Listen to the still small voiceв. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. We still hadn't had the "are we official. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. Look for girls in your singles ward. We have been together for almost 6 years, so I'm well aware of what I got into, but it can still be tough. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl. I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now.
Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. I have been dating a surgeon and we are thinking about marriage. Now that my boyfriend and I are beginning to talk about a future together, though, I realize that I need to consider this question of marrying outside of the church very carefully. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. Do you want to be married in the temple. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. March 18, Run for the hills. However, I will have a talk with him about where things are going between us. Every new set will see your man with fresh and hungry eyes as a potential golden contact.
I would rather being with a man who makes less and is faithful but that is just me!. But marriages don't last if you have to hold back ugly, sarcastic comments when your partner attends religious services or defends religious beliefs. These are nice people. A shitty sex life, potentially. I recommend that talk.
