Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you. Are they a functioning member in society. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. Best wishes in whatever you decide. Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. It is funny that we are all anonymous. Find some small proxy act of affection that can be done regularly to say that he cares about you, and that can be kept sacred as a stand-in for everything else that's missed.
I had a busy career and tried continues that until my son was 3 years old and I realized that he saw us a few minutes during his awaken hours…. There will always be difference between spouses. Mormon girls are raised to believe their worth is how young they marry and how many kids they have. Well in my case and at this time, some of their words and advice are really hitting home and taking root because we are yet another casualty of the residency firing brigade. I am struggling with keeping our worlds overlapping.
That was literally over years ago. I went to BYU. How am I certain. You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources. It's been really helpful already. I am exhausted from giving so much of me and I never got much back.
I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church. This means holding hands while walking around, or even kissing. Dating a doctor is a huge motivator for me. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me.