But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations. A Mormon wife will also want to bring the kids along, and that should be discussed and decided before marriage and before kids. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. Trust Building Exercises for Couples. No hatred, bigotry, assholery, misogyny, misandry, transphobia, homophobia, racism or otherwise disrespectful commentary. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. Ultimately, it comes down to this. My boyfriend and I moved in together when he started his fellowship last year. There are such things as perfect loving families though.
It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. What a joke for an archaeologist. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house. She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. She got engaged 3 months later. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. After our child was born, I can say that my resentment of my husband started to grow and overshadow the respect I have for what he does.
I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. It is so hard, so sad and so lonely. I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. This means first being clear that you want to go on a date. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths.
Read on to know the dating rules of Mormons, and some tips on how you can make it work with this special guy or girl. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on.